This Insight is Helping Me Understand the Narcissists in My Life
Maybe it can help you, too.
There are few descriptors that we love to throw around more than “narcissist”.
We use it to label everyone from our selfish ex to social media influences who maybe post more selfies than we have determined to be appropriate.
The origin of narcissism can be traced back to Greek mythology, where the beautiful, arrogant young man, Narcissus, fell in love with his own image in a pool of water. Unable to look away and leave, he wasted away and died.
The statistics vary, but it’s estimated that approximately 1–5% of the population are true narcissists.
Narcissism, like most characteristics, exists on a continuum, and can vary in degree over time, increasing and decreasing depending on life events or circumstances.
Some level of narcissism is healthy and normal. We all, after all, have a desire to be seen and admired.
At the other end of the spectrum is narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), which can include impaired empathy, viewing oneself as exceptional and displaying grandiosity and attention-seeking characteristics.
So, while we’re all somewhere on the continuum, true, diagnosed narcissism is fairly rare.
